Wednesday, 31 March 2010

infidelity


I consider this as very very bad behaviour. infidelity can mean allot of things like cheating on your wife in a marriage, it can also mean having an affair, being unfaithful, playing around etc etc. you see celebrity who cheat in marriages like Ashley Cole. i think that people who commit infidelity don't think that they will get caught! but the main reason is why do people commit infidelity, well i do have some reason in mind:
. a person might be bored of their relationship
. jealousy
. lost interest
. want to have fun
there could be so many reasons

so may things can be counted as infidelity, when looked at the presentation it got me thinking! i believe that a person who cheats or has an affair can be trusted but is it same for women who sleep around??

infidelity can be a form of lying for example, a guy might have a girlfriend and says to her that she is the one etc but than he say to another girl the same thing! it does cause a form of lying. Also if a person is married an has an affair that is worse, because marriage is about being faithful etc deceiving in a marriage is bad

why do people cheat?
The first explanation is probably the most well known: Spouses cheat because of problems in their relationship - something is missing, passion has faded, partners feel lonely, people find someone who treats them better or who appreciates them more than their current spouse, and so on. the majority of cheaters are man this is because they are unfaithful and they get bored easily and cannot control sexual desires.

i watched the video tape on sex, lies and videotape and the message that i got was that people choose whether to commit infidelity and this is due to reason to why they are doing it like problems in relationship, marriage not working, both couples want different things etc

Annette Lawson is saying that most majority of women have their way around in marriages and get what they really want like adultery can give women power!
this can agreed and be disagreed, yes it can give women control but some women don't have the courage to be so strong if they found out that their husband's been having affair might just get week

i believe that mostly women can be affected by infidelity and children if it is a marriage. it is mostly women who are affected when men be unfaithful and cheat in some cases women and men can be forced to marry and that could be reason to why they commit infidelity

well infidelity is seen as bad behaviour also as an betrayal . in conclusion it is bad to cheat or have an affair and it shouldn't be happening!

read this article it has some interesting stuff :


1 comment:

  1. I definitely agree with you especially about infidelity occuring amongst marriages when children are involved as it's bound to be more affective for the children, emotionally and socially.

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